One of the most heartwarming Thanksgiving stories is the one about Wanda Dench and Jamal Hinton, often referred to as the “Thanksgiving Text Mix-Up.” It’s an example of how unexpected friendships can begin and the spirit of Thanksgiving.
In 2016, Wanda Dench, a grandmother from Mesa, Arizona, accidentally texted Jamal Hinton, a high school senior at the time, thinking she was inviting her grandson to her Thanksgiving dinner. When Jamal responded with a selfie to let her know he wasn’t her grandson, he asked if he could still get a plate. Wanda replied, “Of course you can. That’s what grandmas do…feed everyone.” Touched by her kindness, Jamal took her up on the invitation, and the two met and shared a Thanksgiving dinner together.
What makes this story especially heartwarming is that they have continued this tradition. Each year since 2016, Jamal and his family have been invited to Wanda’s Thanksgiving dinner to celebrate together. Their story, shared widely online, has brought so much joy and inspired people around the world with its message of inclusivity, love, and the importance of connecting across generations and backgrounds.
With the above story in mind, inviting strangers to your Thanksgiving dinner can be a wonderful way to share the holiday spirit and meet new people! Here are some ideas to find one or two people who might appreciate an invitation:
Community Centers and Churches: Many community centers and churches know of locals who might be alone for the holidays. They often have lists of people in need or can connect you with people interested in joining a Thanksgiving meal.
Volunteer Organizations: Look for local charities or shelters where you could volunteer during Thanksgiving. You may meet someone who could appreciate a home-cooked meal and a friendly atmosphere afterward.
University Bulletin Boards: Many international students or out-of-state students may not be able to travel home for the holiday. Posting on university or community college bulletin boards or online student forums can reach students looking for a holiday celebration.
Adopt a Service Member – As you can imagine, there are thousands of service members stationed all over the country who would absolutely enjoy participating in a nice family Thanksgiving dinner. Click on this link https://veteran.com/adopt-a-soldier-for-the-holidays/ to read how you can get in touch with them.
Ask Your Network: Friends, family, or neighbors might know of someone who will be alone for Thanksgiving. Letting people in your social network know you’d like to open your table to more guests may lead to some suggestions.
Remember, some people might feel shy about accepting, so make your invitation warm and easy!
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday.
Nancy Seiverd
CMI Credit Mediators, Inc.
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